Couples on the Brink of Divorce



It is Prudent to Slow Down

Navigating the complexities of a relationship can be challenging, and it’s perfectly normal to feel uncertain about the next steps. If you or your partner are contemplating divorce or separation but aren’t entirely sure if it’s the right decision, Discernment Counseling could offer valuable insights.

This approach provides a space for both individuals to pause, reflect, and explore the possibilities for the future of the relationship. When traditional counseling feels daunting, a partner’s dedication to working on the relationship can pave the way for a different kind of support. This can potentially make all the 

 

A Pause for Reflection and Renewed Direction

Are you and your partner at a crossroads, unsure if your relationship can be salvaged? Traditional couples therapy might feel overwhelming, but Discernment Counseling offers a different approach. It’s a safe space to pause, reflect, and explore the possibilities for your future together.

Understanding Before Solutions:

Discernment Counseling doesn’t focus on immediately fixing problems. Instead, it helps you gain a deeper understanding of your relationship’s dynamics. This empowers you to make informed decisions about your next steps. Through guided conversations, both partners gain clarity on their individual needs, hopes, and concerns. This personalized approach acknowledges that you’re coming from different emotional places.

A Bridge Between Doubt and Commitment:

Perhaps one partner is open to working on things, while the other feels hesitant. Discernment Counseling bridges this gap. Even if traditional therapy seems daunting, a partner’s willingness to explore this alternative can make a significant difference.

Three Paths, One Goal:

The counselor will introduce you to three potential paths forward. These paths represent different approaches to working on your relationship, based on factors like communication, commitment levels, and individual needs. Taking a short quiz can help you identify the path that best suits your situation.

Remember, the ultimate goal is empowerment. Discernment therapy equips you with the tools and understanding to make informed decisions for your relationship’s future. It’s not about assigning blame but about recognizing your individual roles and moving forward with clarity and confidence.

Choose the statement below that best describes your situation:
 I’m done with this marriage; it’s too late now even if my spouse were to make major changes
 There are mixed feelings about the divorce; sometimes I think it’s a good idea and sometimes I am not sure.
 I would consider reconciling if my spouse got serious about making major changes.
 I don’t want this divorce, and I would work hard to get us back together.


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