Couples on the Brink of Divorce

Navigating the complexities of a relationship can be challenging, and it’s perfectly normal to feel uncertain about the next steps. If you or your partner are contemplating divorce or separation but aren’t entirely sure if it’s the right decision, Discernment Counseling could offer valuable insights.

It is Prudent to Slow Down

This approach provides a space for both individuals to pause, reflect, and explore the possibilities for the future of the relationship. When traditional counseling feels daunting, a partner’s dedication to working on the relationship can pave the way for a different kind of support. This can potentially make all the difference.

We Help You Decide if Problems are Manageable

Firstly, the aim of Discernment Counseling is not to immediately solve marital issues, but to help you understand if they are solvable or manageable. Through this process, the goal is for both partners to gain confidence in choosing the best direction for their relationship. The choice can be made easier based on a deeper understanding of its dynamics.

However, when traditional counseling feels daunting, a partner’s dedication to working on the relationship can pave the way for a different kind of support, potentially making all the difference. While you come in as a couple, the individual conversations with the counselor are crucial. This personalized approach recognizes that each of you may be starting from different emotional places, with different hopes and concerns.

Therefore, to help guide you, there are three potential paths to consider. Each path offers a different approach to working on your relationship. Take the quiz to determine which path might be the most suitable for you both. The quiz focuses on areas like communication, commitment, and individual needs. Remember, ultimately, the objective is to support you in making informed decisions about your relationship’s future. Typically, each member has to see their own role in relationship issues and can’t just say they will stay if their partner makes changes. The goal is to empower you to take the next steps with clarity and confidence.

Choose the statement below that best describes your situation:
 I’m done with this marriage; it’s too late now even if my spouse were to make major changes
 There are mixed feelings about the divorce; sometimes I think it’s a good idea and sometimes I am not sure.
 I would consider reconciling if my spouse got serious about making major changes.
 I don’t want this divorce, and I would work hard to get us back together.

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